【前記】此網頁記錄了女兒們辛丑年的夢境。方便給她們回來查閱。
This page records the dreams of my daughters in 2021.
合掌於心
10/4/2021 (辛丑八月二十八)
【凡女大女夢境】夢見和媽媽去餐廳吃飯，帶了爺爺的相片一 起去。我和媽媽坐餐桌的一邊，面對爺爺的相片。餐廳裏大家都在舉行婚禮或是慶祝生日，而我們卻好像在進行喪禮，心裏很難過。媽媽說，媽媽和爺爺及奶奶同坐在車子裡，突然和一機車發生了車禍。媽媽說，如果當時坐位不是這樣坐，爺爺或許就不會過世了。我問媽媽「那機車是不是 造成了過失傷害罪？」 ( 現實生活中爺爺仍在世)
Dream: I dreamed of going to a restaurant with my mother for dinner and took my grandpa‘s photo with me. My mother and I are sitting on the side of the dining table, facing my grandpa’s photo. Everyone in the restaurant is holding a wedding or celebrating a birthday, but we seem to be having a funeral. So I feel so sad. Mother said to me that she was sitting in the car with grandpa and grandma, and suddenly they have a car accident with a motorcycle.。Mother said if the seat was not sitting like this at the time, grandpa might not have passed away. I asked my mom「Did the motorcycle cause the crime of negligent injury?」 (Grandpa is still alive in real life)
【師伯指導】此夢境是在提醒家中的長輩需多留意身體健康問題，不要忽略了，否則會有不好的事情發生。夢境所提示的，難免會有擔心害怕的疑慮。順其自然，心中合掌祈求神佛護佑，或許可以得到神佛保佑消災解難。
Master Analysis: This dream is to remind the elders in the family to pay more attention to physical health problems and don’t ignore them, otherwise bad things will happen. What the dreams suggest might cause fears and doubts. Let nature take its course, put your palms together in your heart and pray for the blessing of the gods and buddhas, maybe you can get the gods and buddhas blessings to eliminate disasters.
加強信心
10/9/2021 (辛丑九月初四)
【凡女大女夢境】(1)夢見自己嘴巴下排長了二層牙齒。靠近舌頭的內層的牙齒比較薄，我用舌頭去舔，那整排牙齒就掉了。外層牙齒比較厚實，但是發現兩顆門牙也很鬆動，我用舌頭去碰，那二顆門牙也掉了。
Dream (1): Dreamed that I have two layers of teeth under my mouth. The teeth on the inner layer near the tongue are relatively thin. I licked it with my tongue, and the whole row of teeth fell out. The outer teeth are relatively thick, but the two front teeth are also very loose. I touched them with my tongue and the two front teeth also fell out.
(2)夢見自己在美國家的後院水泥地上站著，天色昏暗，風很大，有很多狗及類似狗的動物在後院樹叢裏走動。不知道哪裡來的這麼動物出現在家裏後院，所以感覺有點害怕。
Dream (2): I dreamed that I was standing on the concrete floor in the backyard of my house in USA. It was dark and windy. There are many dogs and dog-like animals walking in the bushes in the backyard. I don't know where those animals come from, so I felt a little scared.
(3)夢見自己睡在小時候的房間，躺在小時候的床上。睡醒時，發現房間淹水了，淹到我的半邊臉都浸在水裏。水的顏色是黃色的，感覺很髒很噁心。
Dream (3): I dreamed that I was sleeping in my childhood room, lying on my childhood bed. When I woke up, I found the room was flooded. Half of my face was submerged in water. The color of the water is yellow, and it is dirty and disgusting.
【師伯指導】(1)二層牙齒表示妳在成長的過程，正在蛻變中，牙齒代表咀嚼營養的吸收。後來內層整排牙齒掉了是表示自己不是很有自信，有些奇怪的想法。外層的兩顆門牙也掉了表示有另外的想法推翻了之前的想法或是思緒，會讓自己更沒有自信。需要注意。
Master Analysis (1): Two layers of teeth means that you are growing and changing. Teeth represent the absorption of chewing nutrients. Later, the entire row of teeth in the inner layer fell out, which means that you are not very confident and have some strange thoughts. The two outer front teeth also fell out, indicating that you have other thoughts that overturn previous thoughts. This will make you even less confident, so this requires your attention.
(2)很多狗的動物在後院走動表示未來的環境上接觸的朋友或思考的事情變化多。不知道哪裡來的動物有點怕，表示成長過程要去接受又不敢接受，心境上不穩定，信心需要多一點。
Master Analysis (2): Many dogs and animals walk around in the backyard, indicating that, in the future environment, there will be a lot of changes in making friends, thinking about making friends or thinking about how to adapt changes. You don't know where the animals are coming from, so you are a little scared. This indicates that, in the process of growing up, there are something that you have to accept but you had a hard time to accept. You have unstable mood and need more confidence.
(3) 睡在床上淹水。睡在床上表示妳的思緒要沈澱。淹水表示一些不切實際的想法。在做抉擇時要考慮到進入社會的憧憬和學生時期的觀點，對事情的看法是不同的。要過濾想法和看法。加強自己的安全感。
Master Analysis (3): You dreamed sleeping in bed flooded. Sleeping on the bed means your thoughts need to settle. Flooding means some unrealistic ideas. When making a decision, it is necessary to consider that the vision of entering society and the point of view as a student are different。 You need to filter thoughts and opinions as well as build sense of security.
包容成長
10/10/2021 (辛丑九月初五)
【凡女大女的夢境】夢見自己在美國的房子的主臥房內。媽媽和奶奶要去台北，問我要不要去，我想到還要搭高鐵，太麻煩，所以回答說「不去」。後來我躺在爸媽的床上，大伯打電話來，叫我做一些事。後來發現大伯自己都還沒準備好就叫我做，心裏不是很高興。後來有一位高中時的好朋友來了，她說她想找教練學打網球。我問她是想要請教練教她一個人還是請敎練教我們兩個。她回答説是請教練教我們兩個。說著她媽媽從後面的置衣櫃的門走出來。
Dream: I dreamed of myself in the master bedroom in my house in USA. My mother and grandma were going to Taipei and asked if I wanted to go. I thought it would be too much trouble to take the high-speed train, so I answered "No.“ Later, when I lay on my parents’ bed, my uncle called and asked me to do something. I feel annoying because I found out that he himself was not ready to do the work yet. Later, a good friend from high school came and said that she wanted to find a coach to learn how to play tennis. I asked her if she wanted to ask the coach to teach her alone or to teach us two. She replied that she would ask the coach to teach us both. In the meantime, her mother came out from the closet behind her.
夢見成大的學妹在美國開我的車，我坐在駕駛座旁邊，正往國小校園開去。她並沒有開在柏油路上，而是開在一條人們用腳走出來的黃土路上，是一條捷徑。我突然想起學妹沒有美國駕照，開車是犯法的。此時車已經開到小學後面，即將墜落小溪。頓時小溪成了大峽谷，車子掉入無底峽谷。此時夢境切換到另一空間。（就像在電玩中，瑪麗歐賽車遊戲中，車子墜落後就會到另一空間一樣。）我和學妹連同車子，一同到了台灣，進了類似家樂福的大樓停車場。進入停車場的通道很窄彎度很大。
Dream: I dreamed 成大學妹driving my car in the U.S. I was sitting next to the driver’s seat. We are heading to Gomes Elementary school. She did not drive on the paved road, but on a loess road where people walked out with their feet, which is a shortcut. I suddenly remembered that 學妹 does not have a U.S. driver’s license, so it is illegal to drive. At this time the car has driven to the back of the elementary school, and is about to fall into the creek. Suddenly the creek became a grand canyon, and the car fell into the bottomless canyon. At this time, the dream is switched to another space just like in the Mario car game. We are back in Taiwan and driving into a building similar to Carrefour building for parking. The access to the parking lot is very narrow and curved.
【師伯指導】這是在提示「相處之道」。有沒有準備好，能不能接受，這中間的過程，能不能互相包容，這就是人生的歷練。當一件事延誤也好，提早也好，重點是如果沒有準備好的同時，妳是否可以接受。這些情況都是妳可能會面對的。要能處理得好，需要某種程度的歷練跟轉變。這也是夢中所提的「教練」。教練可以引導妳，用最好的方式和知識，來完成妳現在要做的事情。夢中要「教我們兩個」的意思是，不管是人或是精神，雙方面都要作一個很好的成長及改變。「衣櫃」是未來的意思，打開衣櫃妳可能會進去作更換，這是未來的意思。
Master Analysis: This is a reminder of “the way to get along“. Are you ready? Can you accept it? Can you tolerate each other? This is the experience of life. You might face a situation when you are not ready for something. Question is can you accept it even if you are not ready? You need to have a certain level of life experience or some kind of transformation before you can handle such situation well. This is also the "coach" mentioned in the dream. The coach can guide you to use the best way and knowledge to accomplish what you are doing now or overcome the challenges that you are facing. To “teach us two” in the dream means no matter the physical part or the spiritual part, both parts must make a good growth and change. "Closet" means the future. If you open the closet, you may go in and make a change. This is the meaning of the future.
下面一段是在比喻，在面對未來的任何事情，一定要先想清楚。要非常明暸什麼是可以的，什麼是不行的。可以的，當然是已經準備好的。不行的，例如夢中的無照駕駛就是不行的，會產生嚴重的後果。這是在告誡，任何事，要知道自己是否有準備好，暸解有準備好和沒有準備好之間的差異在哪裡。有準備好，妳一路上可以開得非常平坦，安然自在。如果沒有準備好，妳可能會墜落懸崖或溪谷。因此，任何事情，在面對的時候，要非常的謹慎，並讓它成為習慣性的警戒。
Master Analysis: The following paragraph is a metaphor. When facing anything in the future, you must first think clearly. You need to be very clear about what is doable and what is not. For those that you can do, that means you are already well-prepared. For those that you should not do, such as driving without a driver license , there might be serious consequences if you do that. This dream is a warning. For anything, you have to know if you are ready or not. You have to understand the differences between being prepared and unprepared. If you are well-prepared, you will drive very smooth and at ease along the way. If you are unprepared, you may fall into a cliff or a valley. Therefore, when facing anything, you need to be very cautious, and you should make such awareness a habitual vigilance.
「跳到另一空間…回到台灣進入家樂福大樓，車道很窄，彎度很大」這可能是目前，技術上不是很成熟。也就是在學習改變的心態上不是很成熟。還有需要去克服的，這個要慢慢來。彎道很大，妳的心中會有膽怯。如果妳技術成熟了，也就是妳的心夠穩定了，妳在學習改變的路上會駕輕就熟。這可能是提醒妳，以妳目前的認知及所學的階段，未來妳可能會遇到一些彎道，妳可能會因此猶豫不決。進入家樂福大樓這是比喻。家樂福是一個銷售販賣的場所，這個場所是我們會去購買日常生活用品，準備日常生活物資的地方。這含有「未來」的涵意。進出的車道彎又窄，可能當下的心境會很膽怯。這一部份夢境可能在指示妳，在未來學習改變的路上，信心要加強，如此就可以突破妳心境的障礙。
Master Analysis: 「Jump to another space… Back to Taiwan entering the Carrefour Building. The lane is very narrow, and the curve is big.」This may be, at present, you are technically not very mature, or you are not mature in learning to change the mentality. There is still something to overcome. “ curve is big” means there is timidity in your heart. If you are mature or your heart is stable enough, you will learn how to change or improve yourself with ease. This dream is to remind you, with your current cognition and the stage of learning, you may encounter “curved road” in the future. And you might be hesitant. “Entering the Carrefour Building” is a metaphor. Carrefour is a place for people to purchase and prepare daily necessities. This has the meaning of “future“. When driving on the curved lane, you might be very timid. This dream is telling you to strengthen your confidence so that you can break through the barriers in the future.
學習獨立
11/19/2021 (辛丑十月十五)
【凡女小女夢境】夢見爸爸打電話說要來接我，我說「要等我一下，我還沒有準備好。」等我準備好，走到爸爸車旁，發現爸爸坐在車上已經死了。我哭著想「這下子，只剩下我和媽媽兩個人了⋯⋯」
Dream: I dreamed that my father called and said he was coming to pick me up. I said「Wait! I am not ready yet!」When I am ready, I walked by his car and found that he is already dead in the car. I cried and am thinking「Now, only my mother and I are left⋯⋯」
【師伯指導】這是一種提示性的夢境。妳必須要有獨立的心態，要自己去思惟，未來想要做些什麼。「車子」是未來的動力的意思。爸爸是駕駛者，表示目前很多的依賴和依靠是在父親身上。而未來的依賴和依靠主要是和媽媽同行。要如何慢慢去獨立成長，去接觸社會，學習規劃自己未來的人生。重點是媽媽跟著走，媽媽要從旁指導指引。比如説，除了生活之外，要怎麼面對社會，怎麼交朋友，怎麼適應社會環境，怎麼賺錢，怎麼工作，怎麼去學習儲值自己的生活價值。
Master Analysis: This is a suggestive dream. You must have an independent mindset and think for yourself what you want to do in the future. You have to be cultivated to have independent activities. 「car」is the power of the future. In this dream, Dad is the driver. This indicates that a lot of dependence is on the father. And the future dependence is mainly on the mother. You should learn to grow up independently, learn to get in touch with society and learn to plan your future life. Key point is mother will follow you and guide you in the future. For example, besides learning how to live a life, you need to learn how to face the society, how to make friends, how to adapt to the social environment, how to make money, how to work, how to learn to store the value of one's life.
Your mom will give you some advice, but she will not lead, you will have to make your own decision. Your mom will analyze and help you understand your personality and interests, and then help you decide on your future plans. Your mom will just encourage you from behind. “Male lead outside female lead inside”. The part that male leads is a matter of image. It is not saying that the Dad does not need to help. It is saying that you will need to bear and face it yourself about this problem (image problem) when entering society in the future. You should encourage yourself more.
學習適應
11/28/2021 辛丑十月二十四
【凡女大女夢境】夢見坐在七人座箱型車中間那一排，要上山滑雪。一路上道路兩邊都是潔白的雪。我轉頭向坐在第三排的妹妹説「後面空間好大！」車子開到山崖峭壁。我們下車，看到山下有路，司機説要開下去，於是我們又坐上車。車子從山崖頂，飛跳到半山腰的岩石上，之後又向下飛跳到另一靠近地面的石頭上，最後飛跳到道路上。有人問「嬰兒ok嗎？」我才發現嬰兒在車子飛跳時，從車子裡飛出，掉到路面。不過，還好嬰兒沒事。
後來進了休息室，一位不認識的大人説，所有小孩今天都要表演。我覺得那大人的要求很煩，就趁他轉身背對我時，我向他舉起中指。之後，輪到我表演了，但我拒絕表演，大人們都很驚訝，覺得我很奇怪。我站起來走向門離開。離開前，當著那個大人面前又舉了中指。媽媽跑出來追我，我跑著跑著，腳步越來越快，就飛起來了。我的腳在空中飛跑，飛到滑雪處休息大樓的屋頂。我坐在屋頂上休息，把手機拿出來，心想「好險剛才沒忘了帶手機出來！」。一位我不是很喜歡的大學同學傳簡訊給我，安慰我。後來看到爸爸正飛上屋頂要來追我，我就又飛走了。
Dream: I dreamed of sitting in the middle row of a mini van going uphill to ski. Both sides of the road are covered with white snow. I turned my head and said to my sister sitting behind “ There is plenty of space behind!” Later, we drove to the cliffs and got down the car. We saw a road far down the cliff. The driver said he will drive us down to the road, so we all got into the car again. The car suddenly jumped from the top of the cliff to the rock halfway up the mountain, and then jump two more times before landing on the road. Someone asked “ Is the baby ok?” I found a baby flew out from the car when jumping down. Fortunately, the baby was fine.
We all arrived a lounge. An adult announced that all the kids need to perform today. I was very annoyed, so I raised my middle finger behind him. When it was time for me to perform, I refused to perform. All the parents in the room were very surprised and think I am very strange. I stood up and walked out the lounge with my middle finger in front of the adult again. My mom ran out to chase me. I ran faster and then I started to fly. I flew to the top of the roof and rest. I took out my iphone and saw a message comforting me. The message was from a classmate who I don’t like very much (潘？沈？). Later my dad flew up to chase me on the roof, so I flew away.
【師伯指導】七人座車子是一個動力 。妳現在在做的，或現在在成長的，在學習的，也就是目前進行式當中的動力來源，也就是妳的人生歷程 。 坐在中間的函意是目前經歷的意思。後面很寬是指之後的環境情況會比較好。這個夢比喻在妳的年代裡，目前的生活環境中有一些掙扎或者是不滿意的地方。車子的飛跳過程，是妳的人生歷程裡，在前一段成長過程，經過了一段被「忽略」了。「忽略」的意思是，在小時候成長過程中，某一方面的性向，脾氣，或者是生活模式裡有一直做改變。但改變的過程有一些問題，大人沒有注意到，小孩自己本身也沒暸解到。因為沒有注意到，小嬰兒才會被拋出車外。嬰兒拋出車外是一個比喻，就是説有一些小細節，失去了目標或方向。
後段顯示妳目前本身的性情跟脾氣，是妳與生俱來的心境。以後需要再磨練一下，才能知道怎麼能夠適應環境，決定做出什麼樣的反應。至於父親來追，妳又跑開，指的是目前可能有很多不聽話的意象，也就是在成長的過程中，目前有比較多的意見。父母給的意見參考，她不太能夠接受，或是説她有自己的想法，或是她現在的生活環境裡面，認識的朋友影響到她的習慣性。
Master analysis: Mini-van means the power of moving forward or a life course. Sitting in the middle row of the mini-van means the life that you are currently experiencing. The large space in the back row hints that all will be better later. So, currently, there are some struggles or dissatisfactions in your living environment. The car jumping down means something was “missing” or “ neglected” in your previous period of growth. That means there were some “problems” when developing your personality but neither your parents nor you realized. Because of this, the “baby” was thrown out of the car. This means you lost goals or directions on some details.
You need to grow more, so that you know how to adapt to the environment and how to react to what against your preference or your favorite. You ran away when your dad is chasing. This means currently you tend to not accept your parents’ suggestions. You have your own thoughts and opinions. You might also currently be very much influenced by your friends.
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