凡女人間夢

【前記】已有無數夢境指示要改善自己。這是個正在努力進行的方向，在此給自己加個油! 也為正在努力蛻變成長的歡呼！

I had so many dreams reminding me about self-improvement. I am working hard toward this direction. Let me first cheer myself up here! I would like to also cheer for you who are also transforming for spiritual growth!

11/14/2021 辛丑十月初十

【凡女夢境】夢見下大雨，我正走回小時候的家。後面來了一部機車，停在我後面，一看是大學學長。我說「雨下很大，我這裡有雨傘，你先拿去用」。我從包裏拿出傘，他接過雨傘說「我們是約明天早上見？」我想起我因為要開會所以要把我的嬰兒送到他們家照顧。我於是回答他説「是」。後來有兩部轎車開過來，我正和大學學長要坐進第一部車，他太太說「嬰兒就坐我車上，交給我照顧。等你忙完，再來我家照顧，換我們出門辦事。」我説「好，我可以去你們家照顧或把嬰兒帶回家照顧。」

My dream: I dreamed walking back to my parents’ house in Taiwan. A senior in my college came to meet me. I said “ It is raining heavily. You can take my umbrella.” I took my umbrella from my bag and passed to him. He asked “ Do we have an appointment tomorrow AM?” I recalled that I need to send my baby to his house before the meeting tomorrow so replied “Yes” to him. Later came two cars, the senior and I went into the first car. His wife, who was driving the other car, said to us “ I will take the baby to my car. When you are free, come to my house to take care baby so that I can go out to run my errands.” I said “Sure. I can either take care of the baby in your house or bring the baby home.”

我和學長坐進第一部車，前座坐了一位不認識的學長遞了一張紙，說「你們把姓名資料告訴我，如果大家同意的話就在這張紙上打個手印。」我看到紙上有一紅框，立即說「同意」。但坐我旁邊的學長面有難色説「我太太有時頭髮亂亂的，不知道她會不會不方便。」我問「為什麼會和頭髮有關係？」他沒回答。我又問了一次「學長…. 為什麼會和頭髮有關係嘛？」他説「因為這個過程要從你的頭部進入大腦最裡層….」

After the senior and I went into the car, another senior sitting in the front seat passed a piece of paper to us. He said “ Please provide your information. If you both agree the content, use your finger to stamp on the paper. I see a red box on the paper and said “ I agree” immediately. However, the senior sitting next to me does not seem to agree. He said “ Sometimes my wife’s hair is quite messy, so I am not sure if it is convenient for her or not.” I asked “ Why is this related to her hair?” He did not answer. I asked again the same question. He then replied “ Because the process requires to enter deeply into the inner part of your brain…..”

【師伯指導】以後在學修的過程，在處理事情的過程，或在環境變化的過程裡，遇到的波折或考量，這些都要互助合作。以後的團隊裡面，需要的是互助合作。可能有先有後，誰來照顧，大家都有包袱。現在修行，不像以前到深山就可以，現在是「方便門」，就是説妳除了工作以外，在休息的時間也可用來學修提升自己。這是一個比喻，未來和目前，要如何運用時機點和時間點。妳的時機點和時間點都可以用做提升，不要有局限。不要用「我工作忙！」「我很累！」或其他想法來設限自己。完成提升的步驟沒有局限，只有方法和方式。

Master analysis: In the future, when dealing with any situation, you need to consider teamwork. The future team requires mutual assistance and cooperation. Everyone has his own busy life and schedule. Fortunately, nowadays people can learn Taoism and Buddha at home without needing to go to temples far away in the mountain. It is convenient for people to utilize their spare time after work to learn and improve. So, the key is how to catch the good timing and use it efficiently. Don’t use any excuse to constrain yourself. In order to achieve the self-improvement goal, there is no limitation but methods and ways to achieve the goal.

這一段是一個比喻，我們的靈都集中在頭和咽喉的地方。所有的訊息，所有的決定和決策，都在於妳的頭腦裡面。這頭腦也叫妳的靈。所以妳本身在妳的靈裡面的成長。妳會慢慢會去暸解跟理解，妳本人同意，妳的靈不一定同意。或是妳的靈同意，妳的人不一定同意。所以，要「心靈合一」，妳本人以前認識的觀念想法，跟妳腦部的靈，要有共識。要隨時可以改變自己的舊觀念，不要局限於某種程度和階段裡，這樣才能達到合一。

The next paragraph is a metaphor. The soul usually resides in the head and neck area. All the decisions are made in your brain so you can call your brain as your “soul” if you wish. As you are growing with your soul, you may find that you and your soul may not agree with each other. People are encouraged to have a “unity of mind” (心靈合一) which means what your ideas are agreed with your soul.  If not, you should make yourself flexible to change anytime and get rid of the old ideas. Only when you do not limit yourself at a certain level or stage, only when you keep moving on to change and improve yourself, you can achieve the “unity”(合一).

 頭髮會散亂是因為妳的煩惱絲太多，可能是考慮太多造成的。「過程要從你的頭部進入大腦最裡層」，意思是妳的思惟要從妳的濳意識裡面去改變。所以要學習靜坐，把心神靜下來。當妳的情緒穩定下來，當妳的思緒穩定下來，當妳的煩惱雜念可以控制得了的時候，妳就可以暸解很多事情的決擇要怎麼去做。然後，在想出一個比較好的模式或方法來解決事情。 

The messy hair means you have too many distracting thoughts in your mind. “The process requires to enter deeply into the inner part of your brain”, means your thoughts need to be changed from your subconscious. That is why you should learn to meditate to calm down. When you have a stable mood, when you have a clear thought, when you can control your worries and distracting thoughts, you can make a wise decision and know what to do next. Therefore, you will come out a better way to solve problems.

妳的夢境裡面，其實有很多事情是可以在夢境裡處理的。這可以學習，慢慢一步一步來。比如説，在夢裡妳本來要坐車。但妳可以想，我或許不用坐車，我可以用飛的。下一步要去哪裡，做什麼事，妳可以在夢裡把它解決掉。又比如説，妳在夢裡和人家吵架。妳可以有一個想法，不要跟人家吵，這樣可能就避免掉和人家的爭執，也就是在夢境中解決了下一次可能發生的事情。這就叫作「從濳意識去改變」。

In fact, there are many things that can be handled in the dreams. This can be learned, slowly step by step. For an example, you might dream that you want to ride a car. However, you can in fact choose to fly in your dream. You can go to the place and do the work as you wish in the dream. For another example, say if you are dreaming quarreling with others, you can actually stop this in your dream so that you might avoid an argument in your real life. This is what I meant by changing your thoughts from subconscious.

有很多妳説妳不在意的事，當事情真的來臨時，妳卻非常在意。這就是妳的濳意識裡面，妳的內心深處，也就是妳頭腦的最深層的裡面，的那個決定，要慢慢去克服和改變。所以有很多人説要放得開放得開，講得很簡單，當要去做時很困難。這就是説妳的頭腦（靈）和妳目前的行為舉止，還有距離。所以這個要慢慢自己去暸解一下。

You may realize that many things that you thought you don’t care anymore, when it comes, you do care about it very much. This is what needs to be changed from your subconscious or from the deep inner in the heart. This is a slow process and you need to overcome the obstacles during the process. When we say to let things go, it is much easier to say it than to do. In another words, there is a gap between you and your soul on what to do and how to react. You will have to understand this part of yourself.

【後記】過去的一年中，我有太多的夢境是關於要改善自己，去除舊思惟的提醒。這個夢境除了再次提醒，也更深入的指示，要作「深層」的改變，並要有「隨時可改變」的彈性。

I had so many dreams about self-improvement in the past year. This one is not only a reminder again, but also indicated that the change needs to be made in the deep inner from the heart. This dream also hints to be flexible to make change anytime for self-improvement.